Easy cleaning products you can make at home -
Having a clean and comfortable living space is just plain lovely, and it is a simple pleasure that we all can enjoy. Most people agree that keeping toxic chemicals out of our homes is important, and this leaves us with a dilemma. The green cleaning products on the market today are often overpriced, less green then they claim, and/or produced by the same giant corporations that churn out the bad stuff. But, fear not, for as you may have heard, making your own safe and effective cleaning products is both easy and inexpensive! I run my own Eco-Friendly cleaning business in central Maine, Quality Green Cleaning, and I have gotten very good and mixing and using my homemade cleaners. Here are my favorite tried and true recipes:
All Purpose Cleaner
1c. White vinegar
2c. Water
5-8 drops peppermint oil
This is a great cleaner! Mix it up in a spray bottle, grab a few reusable rags and your ready to go (you may want to buy a few funnels for easy mixing) It wont streak or leave a film, is safe to use on almost all surfaces and fabrics, including food surfaces like counters and cutting boards, and it works. It really shines (*pun*) on windows and mirrors. The best way to clean a dirty window or mirror is to spray it on and wipe with a lint free microfiber cloth to remove any yuck, then use a small squeegee for a perfect streak free shine every time. Little squeegees make doing windows a snap! Don't have a squeegee (well go buy one!) then you can polish with a dry cloth for the same effect.
Floor Cleaner
2.5c. Water
2.5c. White Vinegar
20 drops Tea Tree Oil
This is another non residue cleaner, and it works great on laminate, tile, and finished wood floors. I like to take this stuff in a spray bottle and spray and damp mop as I go. It dries without leaving a film, but you can buff with a dry cloth for extra shine if you're so inclined. You can also store this in a jug and add it to warm mop water if that's your style - great if you have wintry salt stains on your floors. It cuts through sticky gunk like nobodies business. Tea Tree oil has antimicrobial properties and smells really "clean". An all around great floor cleaner.
Wood Floor Cleaner
1c Castile Soap (peppermint is nice)
6c. Warm Water
10-20 drops Pine Oil
If you have a wood floor that is not polyurethaned or sealed, this might be the stuff for you. I use this on waxed, unfinished, or very worn floors (where the finish is mostly worn away) Whenever dealing with unsealed floors always try a little first to see what's what. This cleaner is great at getting up dirty gunkyness that older, seldom cleaned, wood floors tend to collect, it also nourishes the wood and protects it a bit. It will leave your floor glowing with good health! Castile soap is awesome, I use Brommer's, but there are a lot of great brands out there. Again, spray it on, and dry or wet mop, depending on how dirty the floors are. This stuff really responds to a good buff afterwords with a dry rag or mop. (This cleaner is not good on laminate or polyurethane treated floors as it can be slippery or leave a residue on those surfaces.)
Wood Cleaner/Polisher
1/2 c. Canola Oil
1/4 c. Castile Soap
1/4 c. warm Water
Keep this in a jar (old peanut butter jar works good). It will separate so shake before you use. Use a cloth to rub into wood, then buff with a clean dry cloth to a glorious shine. Shines, protects, and discourages dust.
Borax & Baking Soda are the other major players in my cleaning arsenal. They both work great on stainless steel sinks, bathtubs, tile, grimy or stained floors (laminate), etc. Both can also be used in toilets to remove stains and odor. Sprinkled on a damp sponge or cloth they add scrubbing power, or you can make a paste with a bit of warm water to really clean a grimy, greasy bathtub. Be careful on flat top stoves and granite though, as it can scratch. They both can leave a gritty residue, so rinse very well, and if using on a bathtub or shower I recommend spraying the tub down after you rinse with the all purpose cleaner, wiping, and even buffing and drying with a cloth after to make the tub shine and prevent water stains. You can also use your handy squeegee for this!
I also recommend Hydrogen Peroxide on mildew, or rust stains. It has a bleaching action and if left to sit a bit can work wonders (it can pull color from fabrics though, be careful!).
A few drops of any essential oil with a few cups water in a spritz bottle makes a great fabric and air freshener. I like geranium oil!
These are the basics of my cleaning kit. All so cheap and easy to make, and all work amazingly well and are safe for you, your family, pets, and plants. Happy cleaning!
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A Guide to Grief : The Loss of your Pet
When a Good Friend Dies
The loss of a pet means different things to different people. Even under the best of circumstances it can be a difficult and painful transition. And of course, life does not always present us with tidy partings. Sometimes the loss can be sudden and unexpected, taking a young healthy pet from the prime of it's life, other times a pet's owner is forced to euthanize a sick or injured pet. These are difficult situations.

Whether the loss was sudden and unexpected or a long illness in an older animal, most people find a whole bevy of emotions that will accompany the transition. This is entirely normal, and although certain wellsprings of feeling can be intense, and seem overwhelming, the best thing to do is embrace them, truly feel them, and then let them go. In grief we often find ourselves adrift in a dark sea, but the idea of escaping or turning away from painful emotions is only a way of delaying and distorting what is a healthy and necessary part of life. Take the time to grieve. Know that the pain will not last forever, that it will change and soften over time, turning from pain and sadness to a gentle grief blanketing the wonderful memories of the life and love you shared with your pet.
There are many things you can do to help move through this time. When I lost my dog Janus in November of 2011, I found the journey through grief came in steps, and there were many things I did along the way to help me fully experience and move beyond the pain.
"Ever has it been that love knows not it's own depth until the hour of separation" Kahlil Gibran
When my dog Janus was first diagnosed, at the age of 11, with an aggressive and very advanced cancer, she was already quite ill. She was having a very hard time breathing and her heart was enlarged and beating irregularly. This was the most difficult moment for me. I began to weep, unable to use words or language to express the immense anger and fear that the idea of my dog's imminent death created in me. I cried continuously for the next 12 hours. As Janus was still able to walk around and was still eating, I decided to take her home and spend some time with her.
In the next stage I found myself unbearably sad. I was not sleeping, and the physical presence of my dog, uncomfortable though not in serious pain, was very upsetting to me. She had lost a lot of weight, and upon returning from the vet she would only eat a few bites of the hamburgers I was cooking for her. I knew I would need to bring her in and have her put to sleep. I new that her quality of life was poor, and that having her suffer was causing me a lot of pain. The thought of making the appointment and bringing her to be euthanized was extremely painful. It was at this time that I reached out to friends and family. I shared my grief with them, explaining what was happening, and that I would be loosing my constant companion of the last 11 years. They didn't have to do or say anything much, it was simply the act of saying the words aloud and sharing my grief with the people I loved, feeling their support and love, that helped me truly feel the sadness. I am so grateful to all those that supported me for the immeasurable comfort they gave me. After reaching out I was able to call my vet and make her appointment. I cried more after this call, but it had a touch of relief in it.
- Think about what you would do if your pet became very ill before it happens. Would you euthanize? When would such a decision be right for you, your pet, and your family? Have a plan in place.
- Reach out to friends and family when you are sad and upset. A simple phone call, email, or even text can take the weight of sorrow a bit off your shoulders, and the outpouring of love and kind words people will give in return is always sweetly surprising and healing. People want to help! They sometimes just don't know how. Share your grief, it will dilute it's intesity and help you heal.
- When an animal is sick or in pain it is extremely overwhelming for people who love it. When you have decided what you need to do - take action right away. Delaying will only cause more pain, guilt, uncertainty, and will extend the suffering of your pet.
Bringing Janus in to be euthanized was the second worst moment in the journey of her death. I made the decision to go alone. I did this because Janus and I had been together, the two of us, always, and I wanted it to be that way in her death as in her life. It was for me a deeply personal experience. Your vet will offer you many options, and these should be things you think about before your pet is ill. You can be with your pet when it is put under, you can wait outside the room, you can drop your pet off, etc. Make a decision that is right for you and your family. Who needs to be there and why? Don't let other people tell you what is right. If you feel you need to be with your pet, then do it. If you feel the scene will be too overwhelming, and that you will only upset your pet with crying and intense emotion, then make a different plan.
I chose to take my dog's body and bury her. There are a whole slew of options today for how you want to lay your pet to rest. Cremation is readily available and if you have a large pet, or do not have space to bury an animal, it is a good option. Whatever you decide it can be helpful to create a moment, for you and your family, for closure. I brought my dog out to a our family homestead, where previous family pet's had been buried, and where my Father's ashes had been sprinkled. This was a sacred and important place, and I felt really good about putting Janus on this piece of land. I buried her immediately, digging the hole in the rocky Maine soil. The work of digging the hole felt good after my muddled and sleepless days and nights. I was tired, weary, and sad, but I can say that after Janus's suffering ended, a large part of my pain and sorrow ended too.
- Have a plan in place for bringing your pet in to be euthanized & for how you will deal with the remains.
- Honor your pet in it's final resting place.
"When you are sorrowful, look again in your heart, and you will see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." Kahlil Gibran
I was exhausted and took some time to care for myself. I got extra sleep, spent time with those closest to me, and made sure to eat and exercise. I cleaned my apartment and removed all but a few of Janus's things. I gave much of her stuff to a local shelter and to friends, including a cache of dog food. I ordered a large photo of Janus, in her prime, and had it framed. I hung this in a prominent spot, and hung her leash next to it. I also wrote a tribute to Janus which I published online and shared with friends. All of these things helped me feel better about my loss. However you choose to do it, remembering your pet and acknowledging the loss are important. Photos, poetry, essays, gravestones and markers, talking with friends and family - whatever it may be it is important to pay tribute to your friend and all the joy you shared together.
- If your pet had a lot of toys, bedding and food consider donating them or giving them to a friend who could use them. You no longer have that pet, and keeping their accoutrement around can be painful. Keep one or two special items, get rid of the rest.
- Honor your pet in photos, art, written word, or speech. Acknowledge the loss.
-Be prepared for the strangeness of no longer having the pet in your life. Things like being alone in your house, taking a walk without your dog, and no longer having to rush home to feed your pet can be confusing and can reaffirm sadness and loss. This is OK, and in time the strangeness will wear off.
It will take time, of course. I often think of Janus, and sometimes I miss her, simply miss her. But it has gotten better, easier, and I am so grateful that Janus was in my life. It is likely that you will outlive your pet, but this shouldn't prevent you from cherishing and loving every moment you have with them, and remembering them joyously after they are no longer there. Love is larger then death. We grieve for our pets because we love them, but love does not end. Be grateful for the time you had. Find peace in the meetings and partings of life.
"The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?" Kahlil Gibran
How to Get Paid to do a Sleep Study

Getting the gig:
I saw an add on Craigslist seeking volunteers for a 9 day sleep study in Boston Massachusetts. I thought it sounded interesting and shot off an email looking for more info. Within twenty four hours I got a phone call from Peter. I would get to know Peter pretty well over the next four weeks or so. He was polite, informative, and courteous as a rule. He explained in great detail what they were looking for and asked me about 20 minutes worth of questions. These questions related to my sleep patterns (they were looking for healthy sleepers for this study,no insomnia etc.), my overall health, my schedule (would I be flexible enough to jump through their many hoops), any drugs I took (prescribed or otherwise, this study sought females 18-35 who took little to no prescription drugs, did not smoke, or use over the counter meds regularly). He explained to me that this study was a 9 day in lab sleep study looking at the effects of light on circadian rhythms. It would require three weeks of preliminary data collection, and two preliminary interviews to take place in Boston. I scheduled my first meeting with Peter for the following week and my adventure began.
Preliminary work :
When I met with Peter he reviewed a large packet with me, about 15 pages of detailed descriptions of what would happen to me during the nine days I spent at Brigham and Women's Hospital in the sleep lab. He then reviewed what I would need to do (starting that day) leading up to my Lab stay. For the next three weeks I had to A) sleep a set eight hour schedule every night, (I choose 10pm-6am) I would have to call Peter when I went to sleep at 10p and again when I awoke at 6a. B) wear an actiwatch, which is a small light monitor which straps to your wrist and monitors light and movement (this thing can tell if you're sleeping your set schedule, if you're taking naps, or taking it off). C) refrain from the use of alcohol, caffiene, nicotine, and any and all medications including multi vitamins, over the counter cold and pain medication, supplements etc. I would be given several urine tests to be sure I was not breaking that rule. I then was given a physical exam, and gave a urine sample to test for any health problems that would make me ineligible.
I drove home with my list dos and donts. I structured myself right away. I had a sleep log to track my sleep and wake times, I set my cell phone alarm to 9:45pm and 5:45am respectively. If I missed any of my call ins I would not qualify, if I tried to bend or break the rules I would not qualify, and I wanted to qualify, so I took it seriously, and if you want to do a sleep study you should too. They want clean data, and if you do anything that could effect that data they will simply pass you over and move on to the next volunteer.
It was interesting adhering to such a rigid schedule, even for me a very regular sleeper. I noticed within a few days that my body adjusted and I became very sleepy after 9:30pm and would wake up just before the alarm every day. I felt odd getting up at 6a on my days off, but soon learned to enjoy the extra time. Beware outside interference on you sleep schedule. It is very important that you follow the schedule exactly, and your light monitor gives them a very accurate picture of whether or not you're truly doing that. Don't let family members or friends ruin your hard work. The sleep and wake times are nonnegotiable.
I got that classic caffeine headache within twenty four hours of not drinking coffee. It lasted about two days, and was at times blinding. Of course I could not use aspirin or acetaminophen, so I just drank water and herbal teas and got through it. Herbal teas were great for me overall. Watch out for hidden caffeine in chocolate, decaf coffee which is not caffeine free, tea (green, black, chai all have caffeine only caffeine free herbal teas are safe). I would recommend reducing caffeine use before your study if possible, this will help shorten the ensuing headache.
I had a second appointment in Boston about two weeks into my preliminary work. I had an eye exam, a psyche evaluation, and sat down with Shidab the project leader. He reviewed again, item by item, what I could expect in the sleep lab. I would have an IV in my arm the entire time. I would have to wear a core body temperature thermometer the entire time, there would be no clocks or windows in the lab and I would not be allowed at any point to know what time or day it was. I would be subjected to varying degrees of light including dim and very bright lights. I would be required to complete 2 CRs. CR stands fro Constant Routine, and it means you're in bed, sitting up, moving as little as possible, without sleeping for anywhere from 24-70 hours. During that time you eat many small snacks, rather then meals, which are all the same. I agreed to all of this and signed my consent form. I was about 12 days away from entering the lab.
The Lab:
When I arrived at Brigham and Women's Hospital with my suitcase of books and Pajamas I was ready for anything, which was good, because the next nine days proved to be challenging and strange. Everything happened exactly as I had been told it would, and yet there are many miles of difference between someone telling you you'll have an IV and getting one, someone telling you you'll be awake for 24-70 hours and actually sitting in bed in a dimly lit room unsure how long you've been up and how long you have to go. Overall I would say that it was never horrible or painful, but often uncomfortable and tedious.
I found the staff courteous and professional, my room was clean and plain, white walls, bed, desk, and that's abou it. I was required to take computer tests throughout my stay which were dull and got progressively more terrible as I moved from nervous, to bored, to exhausted, to a point beyond exhaustion which may have bordered on insanity. I had some free time the first two wake periods, but after that I was either in CR or doing light exposure tests that prevented me from reading or writing or doing much of anything. I found the techs, nurses, and doctors interesting and kind, they were definitely the best part of my stay.
The worst part was without a doubt the Constant Routines. I had 2 of them in my 9 days in the lab. Upon exiting, my project leader Shidab, told me they had been 50 and 30 hours respectively. I was in dim light throughout both CRs so my idea of reading books to pass the time quickly evaporated. I could just barely read in that light, and when I became tired it became impossible. I should have brought more music and books on tape, and would recommend them to anyone doing a similar study. I could not watch movies as the TV screen gave off too much light. Mostly what I did was play cards and talk with the Techs who were in the room with me constantly. I had computer testing which became progressively more difficult. These are performance/alertness tests involving clicking a mouse when you see a number appear in an empty box, clicking right or left for particular letters that appear in a series and so on. Also at the end of each test you rate your tiredness and mood.
I truly did loose track of time, especially after my first 50 hour CR. It was very important for my well being that I stop thinking about or trying to track time, as that was futile and stressful; I had little control, as I was told when to sleep, wake, shower, etc. and the best thing for it was just to relax and be in the moment. Know that you are volunteering, and can leave at anytime, and that many people before you have survived the ordeal and lived to tell the tale. The day a woke up and was told to take a shower and get ready to be discharged was absolute elation. I had set a goal of completing the damn thing and I had done it! It was exciting and satisfying. Going out that door into the bright, bright light was a wonderful feeling. I was tired and a bit weak but overjoyed to see the sky and my loved ones again. I had missed my family and was so grateful to give them hugs when I got home.
The Monies:
For my particular 9 day sleep study, and the three weeks leading up to it, and the two preliminary visits, I received $3,000. This amount is paid about four weeks after you are discharged from the Lab. If at anytime either before or during your lab stay you quit or are disqualified, you are paid for what you have completed (ie $150 for each day spent in the lab, $45 for each week wearing the actiwatch etc.) however when you finish the final day of the study you get a $650 bonus, so you absolutely want to complete the study if you can. You will not get your money the day you leave the Lab, it will be mailed to you up to four weeks later (and this surely varies at different sleep research facilities). When you complete a study you can not do another study for three months.
The different studies vary greatly, as does the pay. They tend to range from 3 - 39 days and the pay is based more on difficulty then length. For instance there are several 14 day studies that pay less then what I recieved for my 9 day study, however they do not require an IV or CRs. You will want to choose a study that matches your willingness for discomfort. If you are not comftorable with an IV and blood draws do not sign up for a study where you will have an IV for 9 days! Make sure the study requirements are 100% ok with you before you get in there.
If you are interested in a sleep study you should check out this site : http://sleep.med.harvard.edu/research/recruitment
They have all different kinds of studies and seek all different kinds of participants. Also watch Craigslist as many different sleep study recruiters place adds there.
This is another good sight to check out for more opportunities across the country : http://paidfocusgroup.net/ClinicalStudies_View.aspx
Sleep studies are interesting and challenging adventures. They are a good way to make some quick money, and you get a great experience to tell your friends about. I am glad I participated in my study and I plan to do one again in the future, however I do not take them lightly, it is very much like a job and can test you inner strength and perseverance. If you are interested in a sleep study I highly recommend that you check out the sites and get in touch with a recruiter today!
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